Title: Greys anatomy nightmares
Your Story: I’m a mother to four children. My husband and I had been married for 15 years. Of that, 11 of them were in schooling and training for him to be a Dr. I took care of everything else. Everything. He never got up with kids in the night. Or went to the grocery store or even knew what money we had in our bank account.
Some medical tech at the hospital caught his eye… a lot because “she made it very clear how interested she was.” She was 15 years younger than him. They started messaging and took their relationship out of work and within a month they are making out in her car when he has call shifts at the hospital. I felt that he was distanced and something going on. But never in my wildest dreams would I suspect he was capable of such betrayal and deception. I thought our relationship was fine. In fact the day after their first kiss I planned a date to the movies and we held hands and I had a great time. Almost a month later their affair went into the call room where they had unprotected sex. The next day, despite him being rude, I had made special plans for our family and we shared a good family day and went out with my sister and her husband. I can not believe he didn’t wake up here and realize how stupid and careless he was was all summer. Instead the emotional affair amped up and they said they loved each other and would make adorable kids and she’d be a great mom. She came back to the next call shift and the had sex twice. My daughter found messages on his phone when I was out of town in early September. She’s 11 and lost her innocence in one day. She told me when I got back in town and I confronted my husband. The truth slowly came out and the damage is irreversible. I loved my life and now love with so much shame to have such an idiot as a husband. I feel disposable and so disappointed that this is my life.